The Growing Pains Podcast

Using Conflict as Opportunity with Kyle & Sara Wester

Alyson Caffrey Episode 96

What if conflict wasn’t something to avoid but a powerful opportunity to grow closer? In this episode, I sit down with Kyle and Sara Wester, two incredible experts who help parents create thriving, connected families without fear-based approaches. We dive into real-life tools for handling parenting conflicts, aligning as a couple, and raising self-controlled, self-disciplined kids. From embracing mistakes to redefining conflict as a chance to build deeper understanding, they share stories and strategies that will inspire you to build a more intentional, connected family.

Topics covered in this episode:

  • How to view conflict as an opportunity to grow closer as a couple.
  • Why unpacking your childhood stories is key to aligning as parents.
  • Practical tools for tag-teaming as a couple with complementary strengths.
  • How to create a shared family vision and values that guide decision-making.
  • Ways to involve your kids in family goal setting and intentional conversations.
  • The importance of regular check-ins to keep your relationship strong and connected.
  • How embracing mistakes can lead to powerful moments of family growth.


CONNECT WITH KYLE & SARA:
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/artofraisinghumans
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/artofraisinghumans
TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@artofraisinghumans

RESOURCES FROM ALYSON:

The Kid-Proof Business Checklist
https://alysoncaffrey.com/checklist

Maternity Leave Planning Guide
https://www.mastermaternityleave.com/guide